雅思阅读材料之如何从男闺蜜升到男朋友

时间：2021-02-10 00:42:14 来源：蒲公英阅读网 本文已影响人

相关热词搜索：雅思 男朋友 材料

雅思阅读材料之如何从男闺蜜升到男朋友 本文关键词：雅思，男朋友，材料，阅读，男闺蜜升到

雅思阅读材料之如何从男闺蜜升到男朋友 本文简介：智课网IELTS备考资料雅思阅读材料之如何从男闺蜜升到男朋友出国英语考试有哪些雅思6.5是什么水平雅思阅读评分标准托福阅读评分标准雅思和托福的区别雅思双语阅读：剩男大反思为何和她只能是“闺蜜”现在不仅“剩女”横行，“剩男”也不在少数!和那个她相处的很好，可是为什么和她就是迈不出那最后一步呢?这不仅让

雅思阅读材料之如何从男闺蜜升到男朋友 本文内容：

智课网IELTS备考资料

雅思阅读材料之如何从男闺蜜升到男朋友

出国英语考试有哪些

雅思6.5是什么水平

雅思阅读评分标准

托福阅读评分标准

雅思和托福的区别

雅思双语阅读：剩男大反思

为何和她只能是“闺蜜”

现在不仅“剩女”横行，“剩男”也不在少数!和那个她相处的很好，可是为什么和她就是迈不出那最后一步呢?这不仅让我们反思!下面让我们探讨一下这个问题吧!

Why

You

re

Just

Friends

为什么我跟她只是朋友?

We

ve

all

been

there

--

crushing

on

that

girl

we

re

hanging

out

with,thinking

this

might

actually

go

somewhere.

And

the

more

time

we

re

spending

together,the

more

we

realize

how

much

we

actually

like

her:

how

she

talks,how

she

laughs,that

she

can

chill

with

us

like

one

of

the

guys.

我们都有过这样的经历：对经常跟我们混在一起的那个女生有了感觉，觉得大家的关系可能会有所发展。跟她在一起的时间越久，我们就越发意识到有多喜欢她：她说话的样子，她笑起来的样子，她会像兄弟一般陪伴在我们身边。

And

then

there

s

that

moment,when

we

realize

that

we

haven

t

really

made

a

move

yet.

Were

we

waiting

for

her

to

go

for

it?

Were

we

not

sure

she

d

be

into

it?

All

of

the

sudden,she

s

talking

about

another

dude,she

s

bringing

you

into

the

bathroom

with

her

while

we

re

talking

on

the

phone

and

calling

us

for

advice.

也就是在那一刻，我们意识到，我们的关系其实并没有更进一步。在等她挑明?不确定她是不是懂你的心?然后突然有一天，她嘴里眼里心心念念的是另外一个人，打电话给你寻求恋爱意见，实实在在的从头到脚给你泼了一瓢冷水。

8.

She

Feels

Rejected

她觉得被拒之门外

When

you

purposely

go

into

the

“friend

zone“a

girl

might

immediately

put

you

into

the

friend-only

category

because,although

she

might

have

initially

felt

some

sort

of

attraction

to

you,she

now

feels

that

you

do

not

share

those

feelings

and

it

s

hard

to

switch

back

after

a

deep

friendship

has

been

formed.

It’s

hard

to

change

our

minds

back

unless

something

happens

to

change

our

perspective.

如果你有意想进入她的“朋友专区”，那她可能会立马把你划到“只能做朋友”的类别中。虽然她可能在刚开始对你有吸引的感觉，但是一旦她感觉到你并没有分享同样的感受，而你们之间已经建立了深厚的友情，那她的感觉就很难拨乱反正了。除非有什么事情发生让我们改变看问题的视角，否则我们的思维是就很难再变回去了。

7.

She

s

Already

Moved

On

她已经开始了新感情

I

have

a

timing

threshold

between

when

a

guy

becomes

a

“friend

I

could

potentially

date“and

a

“friend

who

will

only

ever

be

a

friend.“What

happens

with

the

timing

thing

is

that

once

I

become

close

to

a

guy,with

the

“he

s

one

of

my

best

friends“mindset,it

s

past

the

point

of

no

return.

He

s

the

one

I

turn

to

when

I

have

problems

with

the

guy

I

might

be

dating

at

the

time,the

one

I

m

not

afraid

to

let

see

me

looking

my

worst,and

the

one

I

can

rely

on

when

I

need

anything.

But,this

is

always

with

the

understanding

that

he

s

my

friend.

Nothing

more.

女生的心里是有个时机门槛的：“可能会约会的朋友”和“只能做朋友的朋友”可大不一样。这个时机就是，一旦女生跟某个男生很亲密，心里有了“他会是我最好的朋友”的想法，那么这个时机就过了，再也无法回头了。最好的朋友，意味着我会跟他聊我恋爱中的所有问题，我也不怕让他看到我最丑的样子，我有任何需要都可以指望他。但在我的心里，他只是我的朋友，再无其他。

6.

You

re

Not

Being

Decisive

你太过犹豫不决

Women

are

into

decisive

men

who

know

what

they

want.

Women

want

to

feel

wanted

and

swept

off

their

feet.

The

whole

“friendship“gimmick

is

not

attractive

to

women.

If

that

s

your

approach

to

a

woman

you

re

interested

in,you

re

showing

that

you

re

indecisive,scared

and

don

t

know

what

you

re

looking

for.

They

want

you

to

see

their

potential

right

away

and

then

pursue

them.

女人喜欢决绝果断，明确知道自己想要什么的男人。这样女人才会有一种被需要的感觉，会让她们神魂颠倒。“友情”这种骗人的把戏对女人没有吸引力。如果培养友情是你接近感兴趣的姑娘的方式，那么你就是在表现自己不够果断、战战兢兢和无所适从的一面。女人想要你马上看到她的潜力，然后展开攻势。

5.

You

re

Afraid

Of

Dating

你在害怕约会

I

think

that

you

ve

come

to

rationalize

avoiding

something

that

s

difficult

for

you.

You

have

to

learn

to

date.

I

know

it

s

awkward

and

scary,but

what

you

re

doing

[if

you

try

to

be

friends

first]

is

trying

to

find

some

shortcut

or

loophole

or

easy

way

out

that

will

allow

you

to

avoid

doing

something

that

I

think

you

know

you

need

to

do.

This

same

psychology

is

why

overweight

people

keep

buying

miracle

pills

instead

of

getting

on

the

treadmill.

只做朋友不恋爱，我觉得你只是在合理地避免一些困难的事情，你必须学会如何约会。我知道约会很尴尬很吓人，但如果你想先做朋友，那你只是在走捷径找漏洞，用轻松简单的相处方式让你可以免于约会里的种种麻烦。这跟超重的人拼命买特效药而不愿意运动减肥的心理是一样的。

4.

You

Haven

t

Made

Her

Feel

Desirable

你没有让她觉得自己魅力不可挡

Of

course

you

should

be

respectful

and

not

treat

women

as

objects,but

it

is

quite

possible

to

do

that

and

act

like

a

man

and

make

a

woman

feel

like

she

is

beautiful

and

desirable

at

the

same

time.

Women

don

t

want

to

be

treated

as

porcelain

dolls

--

they

want

to

be

treated

as

adults.

And

in

the

context

of

dating,most

of

them

like

being

treated

as

attractive,sexy

adults

by

a

man

who

acts

like

a

man,not

one

who

acts

like

a

starstruck

boy.

你当然应该尊重女性不能拿她们当玩物，但是同时你也应该像个男人一样，让女人觉得她很漂亮很有魅力。女人可不想被人当瓷娃娃一样对待，你得拿她们当成年人看待。在约会的情况下，女性大都希望能被对方当做魅力而性感的成年人对待，而相对地，男性也别表现得像个幼稚的追星族一样。

3.

You

Haven

t

Asked

For

A

Date

你从来没有开过口

By

not

asking

for

a

date

you

are

implicitly

saying,“I

don

t

want

to

audition

--

don

t

consider

me

for

the

role.“Unless

you

are

irresistible,most

women

will

be

perfectly

OK

to

have

a

male

friend

like

that

in

perpetuity

while

they

continue

to

search

for

the

right

partner.

从不开口表示想和她约会的心情，就像是在暗示她：“我不想试镜，别考虑我来演这个角色。”

除非你真是魅力强大无可抵挡，否则大部分的女性对身边有这样一个永远的男性朋友都会表示完全能接受，而她们还能继续找寻自己对的那个人。

So,ask

them

for

a

date

and/or

make

it

clear

that

you

want

to

be

more

than

a

friend.

The

worst

that

will

happen

is

they

will

say

no,and

you

will

have

saved

yourself

a

lot

of

time

you

would

have

spent

wondering

whether

this

friendship

will

turn

into

a

romantic

relationship.

所以啊，要开口说我想跟你约会，或者表露心迹：我不只是想跟你做朋友。最坏的结果也只是她拒绝了你，这样你可就省了花时间心思来琢磨你们的友情能不能发展成爱情了。

2.

She

Hasn

t

Seen

Your

Guns

她没看到你的身材优势

I

suggest

accidentally

showing

off

your

muscles.

It

sounds

stupid,I

know,but

I

can

t

even

remember

the

number

of

times

some

girlfriends

and

I

have

had

a

conversation

along

the

lines

of,“Oh

my

god,did

you

see

X

s

biceps/hip

muscles/forearms

today?

Who

knew?!

So

hot!“If

you

don

t

have

muscles,then

work

out.

At

least

your

arms.

建议你时不时地秀一下自己的肌肉，我知道可能听起来有点傻，但我真的不记得有多少次跟我的女朋友有过这样的对话模式：“天啦，你今天有没有看到那个谁谁谁的二头肌/翘臀/强壮的臂弯?谁知道怎么会这么性感啊!”

如果你没有肌肉，那就要去健身，至少练练手臂。

1.

She

Hasn

t

Seen

Your

Skills

她没看到你的能力

I

suggest

having

them

see

you

in

your

most

natural

habitat

doing

what

you

do

best.

Confidence,concentration

and

skill

in

action

is

very

attractive

that

women

are

responsive

to.

Some

women

will

be

turned

on

by

computing

skills,others

by

artistic

ability,some

by

funniness,others

by

quiet

loner-ness,etc.

It

s

not

that

hard

to

figure

out.

建议你让她们看到你在最熟悉的工作环境中做最擅长事情的样子。自信、专注和采取行动的能力会让女人觉得很有吸引力，女人会吃这一套。有些女人喜欢电脑技能强的，有些喜欢艺术能力优秀的，有些则爱幽默感十足的，还有人则会着迷于那种安静忧郁系的男人，想要搞清楚绝对不难。

以上就是智课教育雅思频道为大家整理的雅思阅读材料之如何从男闺蜜升到男朋友，希望对大家有帮助，更多资讯、资料请访问智课教育雅思阅读频道

篇2：雅思阅读材料之“待用快餐”首现西安餐厅

雅思阅读材料之“待用快餐”首现西安餐厅 本文关键词：雅思，西安，快餐，待用，餐厅

雅思阅读材料之“待用快餐”首现西安餐厅 本文简介：智课网IELTS备考资料雅思阅读材料之“待用快餐”首现西安餐厅您当前的位置?智课教育官网?雅思?雅思阅读?文章正文出国英语考试有哪些雅思6.5是什么水平雅思阅读评分标准托福阅读评分标准雅思和托福的区别Inspiredbythesuccessof“suspendedcoffee”asanactofki

雅思阅读材料之“待用快餐”首现西安餐厅 本文内容：

智课网IELTS备考资料

雅思阅读材料之“待用快餐”首现西安餐厅

您当前的位置

?

智课教育官网

?

雅思

?

雅思阅读

?

文章正文

出国英语考试有哪些

雅思6.5是什么水平

雅思阅读评分标准

托福阅读评分标准

雅思和托福的区别

Inspired

by

the

success

of

“suspended

coffee”

as

an

act

of

kindness

to

a

stranger,a

restaurant

in

Xi’an,Shaanxi

province

has

started

to

offer

“suspended

lunch”

following

the

online

sensation

of

the

theme.

在“待用咖啡”这种向陌生人施善的行动获得成功的激励下，陕西西安一家餐厅开始提供“待用午餐”，延续传递爱心的主题。

Gao

Wenqi,partner

of

Yushang

Cultural

Kitche,located

in

High-tech

Zone

of

Xi’an,said

the

restaurant

allows

customers

to

buy

a

maximum

30

portions

of

free

lunches

each

day.

“御上文化厨房”位于西安市高新区，这家餐厅的合伙人高文麒说，餐厅每天最多准备30份待用快餐供顾客认购。

“If

nobody

comes

to

take

the

prepaid

lunch,we

will

stop

the

program

and

donate

them

to

those

in

need

in

the

community.”

“如果没有人来取用这些已付费的午餐，我们将停止这一活动，并把午餐捐赠给社会上需要的人。”

An

old

man

came

to

have

the

free

lunch

on

Sunday,April

14.

Each

free

lunch

costs

20

yuan

(3.2$).

一位老年人在4月14日周日这天到此享用了免费午餐。每份免费午餐价值20元（3.2美元）。

“I

am

worried

that

some

people

may

take

advantage

of

the

opportunity,but

I

believe

it

worthwhile

if

we

can

help

only

one

person.”

“我担心会有人投机取巧，但我相信只要能帮助哪怕一个人，这件事就是有意义的。”

Sociology

scholar

Chen

Li

promoted

the

concept

of

“suspended

fastfood”

on

his

Weibo

on

April

12,generating

a

heated

discussion

over

the

weekend.

National

newspaper

People’s

Daily

and

online

celebrities

like

Rui

Chenggang,business

anchor

at

China

Central

Television

(CCTV),also

gave

support

to

the

charity

program

on

Weibo.

4月12日，社会学学者陈里在他的微博上推广“待用快餐”概念，话题引起的热烈讨论持续了整个周末。人民日报以及央视经济频道主持人芮成钢等媒体名人纷纷在微博上支持这一慈善项目。

篇3：雅思阅读材料之Loveyourself

雅思阅读材料之Loveyourself 本文关键词：雅思，材料，阅读，Loveyourself

雅思阅读材料之Loveyourself 本文简介：智课网IELTS备考资料雅思阅读材料之Loveyourself出国英语考试有哪些雅思6.5是什么水平雅思阅读评分标准托福阅读评分标准雅思和托福的区别HowtoFallinLoveWithYourself如何爱上你自己？Weareconstantlybombardedwithvisionsofhoww

雅思阅读材料之Loveyourself 本文内容：

智课网IELTS备考资料

雅思阅读材料之Love

yourself

出国英语考试有哪些

雅思6.5是什么水平

雅思阅读评分标准

托福阅读评分标准

雅思和托福的区别

How

to

Fall

in

Love

With

Yourself

如何爱上你自己？

We

are

constantly

bombarded

with

visions

of

how

we

are

not

good

enough

or

how

we

need

to

improve

ourselves.

And

it’s

not

only

external

things

that

cause

us

to

have

such

low

self-esteems

and

feel

bad

about

ourselves

either.

Maybe

you

think

all

the

negative-self

talk

is

your

way

of

being

real

with

yourself.

Little

things

like:

I’ll

never

get

it

done,I

don’t

deserve

that,why

would

they

want

to

help

me?

oh

I

could

never

wear

that,and

I’m

not

smart

enough.

Instead

of

focusing

on

and

telling

yourself

what

you

can’t

do

try

focusing

on

what

you

can

do.

我们总是被这些想法狂轰滥炸：觉得自己不够好，需要完善自我。不只是外在的因素让我们自尊心不够或者觉得自己不好，也许你会觉得，这样自我否定的消极对话是你内心对自己的真正看法，那些都是生活中的琐事：我永远办不好这件事；我不值得；他们为什么想帮我？唉，我真不该穿那件衣服；我不够聪明现在，我们需要转变注意力：试着去关注那些我们能做到的，而不是那些我们做不到的。

Here

are

a

few

ideas

you

can

try

to

build

yourself

up

and

fall

in

love

with

yourself

all

over

again.

下面这些小贴士，会让你变得更强大，重新爱上你自己：

Focus

on

your

strengths.

We

all

have

strengths

and

luckily

they

are

not

all

the

same.

Do

things

you

are

naturally

good

at

and

enjoy

and

you

will

build

self

confidence,efficiency

and

pride.

聚焦自己的强项。我们都有强项，很幸运，大家的强项各有不同。做一些你天生擅长的事情，享受过程，你会建立自信、效率和骄傲。

Be

proud

of

your

accomplishments.

No

matter

how

big

or

seemingly

small

your

accomplishments

are

you

should

be

very

proud

of

each

and

every

one

of

them.

Whether

it’s

completing

high

school,university,starting

your

own

company,having

kids

and

raising

a

family,completing

a

project

that’s

hanging

around

for

far

too

long,be

proud.

Celebrate

the

small

and

large

accomplishments

and

everything

in

between.

为自己的成功感到骄傲。为自己的每一次成功感到骄傲，不论大小。也许是完成高中学业，可能是从大学顺利毕业，也许是开了自己的公司，有了孩子，开始养家糊口，也可能是完成了一个拖了很久的项目，这些都值得骄傲。为自己这些大大小小的成功的一切喝彩。

Get

excited

about

who

you

are.

Celebrate

your

uniqueness.

Maybe

you’re

a

very

caring

individual,efficient,or

adept

to

solving

problems.

Embrace

it.

Be

proud

that

you’re

not

like

everyone

else

in

your

social

circle.

People

love

you

for

being

you.

很开心，我是这样的人。庆祝你的独一无二。也许你富有爱心，也许你办事很有效率，又或者你解决问题很老道。拥抱你的特别。你应该感到骄傲，因为你跟你的社交圈里的其他人都不一样。正因为你是你，所以大家才会爱。

Share

your

talent.

If

you’ve

got

a

talent

share

it

with

the

world.

If

you

can

write

–

write,if

you

can

dance

–

dance,if

you

can

organize

…well

you

get

the

picture.

Believe

it

or

not

there

are

people

out

there

who

could

benefit

greatly

from

you

sharing

your

talents.

Ever

notice

how

giving

to

others

makes

you

feel

so

incredible

about

yourself?

分享你的才华。如果你天赋异禀，记得跟全世界分享。如果你文笔很好，那就写作吧；如果你舞跳得很棒，那就跳给大家看；如果你组织能力强，呃，你懂的。不管你相信与否，这世界上总会有人会因为你分享的才华而获益匪浅。你更应该注意的是，这样的分享过程，会让你觉得自己很棒。

Forgive

yourself.

Guilt

is

a

weird

thing.

All

guilt

does

is

hold

us

in

the

past

reliving

something

we

wish

we

could

change.

Not

going

to

happen

I’m

afraid.

Forgiveness

is

a

choice.

Forgive

yourself.

The

past

is

the

past

(I

know

you’ve

heard

this

before

but

the

more

you

hear

it

the

more

you

may

start

to

believe

it).

Forgive

yourself,apologize

and

move

on.

原谅你自己。内疚是件很奇怪的事情。内疚感只能让我们纠结着过去不放手，老是想着要是重来一遍一切会不一样。不过我想应该什么都不会发生。宽恕其实是种选择，原谅自己，过去的就让它过去吧（我知道你以前肯定也老是听到这句话，不过听到次数越多，你就越应该相信）。原谅，道歉，然后继续向前。

Do

something

just

for

you.

Take

time

for

yourself

and

just

relax.

Rest

both

your

mind

and

your

body.

Rejuvenate

by

sitting

quietly

listen

to

soft

soothing

music

or

watch

the

wonders

of

nature

from

your

own

backyard,balcony

or

window.

Treat

yourself

to

a

massage

or

spa

day.

Whatever

it

is

that

makes

you

feel

special

and

relaxed

…

do

it.

为自己做点什么。给自己留点时间，放松下。让你的身心都能好好休息下。静静地坐着，听着抚慰心灵的轻音乐，或者从后院、阳台或窗户看出去，欣赏大自然的奥妙奇景，这些都会让你变年轻。去做做按摩或者泡泡温泉，犒劳一下自己。不论是什么让你觉得很特别很放松，去做就好。

Love

yourself.

Take

pride

in

all

your

unique

glory.

Maybe

you’re

quirky

and

have

a

very

different

talent.

Embrace

it.

Flaunt

it

and

share

it

with

the

world!

爱自己，为自己所有独一无二的魅力感到骄傲。也许你有点奇怪，有点不同常人的才华，拥抱你的特别。要炫耀，然后跟全世界分享。